September 13, 2010
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The Last Single Person on Earth
Usually, most of my friends are in relationships. I've gotten used to that. But now, literally everyone I hang out with is either dating, with someone, engaged or married. I've reached the age where all my friends are at that stage of their life. Even people who I would never imagine being in a relationship, is in one. Always being the 3rd, 5th, 7th wheel sucks. I try to put on a brave face and stay optimistic that my Prince Charming is just around the corner, but I don't know how much longer I can keep that facade up. I've gotten so lonely that I'm actually entertaining the idea of letting my mom set me up on a blind date with a girl.
A lot of people have come to the conclusion that I can't find anyone because I'm too picky. I honestly do not think that I'm too picky. All I want is a guy that's decent looking, with a good personality. That's it. Is that being too picky? But no matter how lonely I get, I will never ever get a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend. I refuse to settle.
While things are looking rather bleak at the moment, I still have a glimpse of hope left in me. Every day is a new day, and just because I've been single for 5 years, doesn't mean I can't meet Mr. Right tomorrow. And the first thing I will ask him when I meet him is, "what you waiting for?"
Comments (34)
dude it's 2010. are you online already? you can ANYTHING on the internet these days! and there's some grade A quality meat on there, no room for settling. what are YOU waiting for?
download the grindr app.
Someone out there is thinking the same thing.
Chin up, Wuwu.
I was single for 7 years before I dated Karen. Love will find you if you keep on waiting. Just keep your life productive and do things that have meaning to you.
-ray leeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
@girl_smileyy -
agreed
funny you wrote this. my ex-bf from college called me at like midnight last night to discuss exactly the thoughts you're going through. "What if I'm 40-years-old and still single?" I think it's a common fear we all have. Being alone. Feeling lonely.
Lets just get married wuwu!!!
good things come to those who wait patiently. no worries, your time will come. just keep yourself busy and before you know it, you'll finally meet "the one".
go to the gym so you're not 135 lbs
that should help you out a little.
There's plenty of guys here in Europe. Every time I pass a guy, I think of you. lol. Join me in Italy!
awwww! join eharmony!
don't take advice from a 140 pound loser (ie
@Yosho -
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Excellent last line. Hmmm...move to San Fransisco??
it's not too much to ask, and you must not settle! hang in there <3
I love the way you ended the post. Have fun, laugh and enjoy your time and hopefully Mr. Right is going to take notice of you. Good luck!
aww wuwuw...yeah when you meet Mr Right, ask him that and jump on him already.
@davidian -
that's a good app to start with unless you're hanging in places with non-decent looking guys or you started looking into girls.
He's out there somewhere, don't worry!
BTW, your previous post about wetting your pants nearly made me pee MY pants, I laughed so hard!
LOL @ Jen & Wuwu getting married. Its so perfect I'm kinda mad I never thought of it before.
There are lots of, um, friendly fish for you here in Hawaii!
@davidian -
how did YOU know about grindr? lol
@TheLizarellaProject -
I'm glad that I was able to wet your panties.
Yeah, I hear you. I am single again, after 16 years...
no fun.... best of luck mate,
*~matthew~*
Chin up, Wu!
@wutuwaitn4 - grindr is the best application to hit the iphone period!
Ok. I just broke up with the guy I've been dating for the past four months less than 24 hours ago, and he's the first guy I've given a chance in more than a year after breaking it off with the father of my son. We'd still be together if he hadn't showed me his true colors by cheating on me with his ex after promising that he was so different, but I'm slowly beginning to realizing that all men really are the same which is why I'm going back to laying low as far as dating goes, but take it from someone who knows. It's hard having friends who're are currently involved in relationships, very hard which is why I try to distance myself from my friends who have significant others to save myself the heartache of watching them enjoy the same type of love, affection, and security that I long for. And it's even harder for me because I'm in an open relationship with a woman whose been with her boyfriend long before we got together, and even though we've been together for three years and counting, it's definitely not an easy task sharing her as I'm quite sure you can imagine, so I feel your pain. I too am at a point in my life where I feel the need to settle down and put the hard to get games that we often to play to get the one we want behind me, but I'm not willing to just settle for anything because I don't have to, and I'm definitely not desperate enough to settle for just anyone, so I understand what you're going through. But you just gotta be strong within yourself to know that Mr. Right does exist, and patient enough to wait, that's all because quite frankly, it's either gonna happen or it's not. Keep your head above water, friend. He's coming...
Match dot com
One of my offroading buddies met his gf there.
it's tough being the 3rd wheel, i understand wu. but for real, there's a good guy out there and if you keep your eyes and ears open, you two will meet.
and then i'll be propping your entry about how happy you are with the lucky dude! =)
eh I'm in the same boat. Gotten to the point where I'm even trying online crap. And I know I'm not picky either. I just need that connection. someone that actually gets me. still haven't found them yet = (
But doesn't everyone think that they're not too picky?
I feel thy pain. I've actually given up. What's the point.
You posted this on my birthday.
Hey there! I honestly can't believe you haven't been snatched up off the market yet! I, being a gay man, think I can say this due to my own personal experiences and feelings, but I think you are a damn catch! But you never gave me the chance..... So maybe you are picky? I think I'm fairly decent looking with a good personality.... hmmmmmmm
don't get your mom to set you up.
My mom did that. It was terrrible and awkward.
Airhug, lol. I feel your pain, but shoot - when you find the right person, all the waiting will be totally worth it!! GOODLUCK!
I hope he enters your life soon. And what you're asking for isn't a lot. It's good that you aren't willing to settle, that's one of the worst things we can do to ourselves.